I hung up the phone stunned. I had just asked the Reverend Charles MacEachern (Charlie) to officiate at our wedding. He was the retired pastor of my family church in Massachusetts, a family friend. The year was 1987.
Charlie asked about Terry. I started with, “Terry is an avid Penn State football fan.”
His response was “Carolyn, that’s all I need to know. Anybody who’s a fan of Joe Paterno will make a great husband.” He immediately agreed to marry us.
Charlie explained, “Joe Paterno is my hero. He doesn’t compromise academics to win. He does college football the right way.”
And so my marriage to Terry Todd started on that note nearly 25 years ago. After that phone call, I figured I had better learn more about Joe.
And what I learned as I observed and came to love Penn State football was how precious an individual he really was.
I remember the first time I met Joe Paterno.
